Lately I've been going over old project photos, trying to evaluate what to include in my web portfolio and what to leave on the shelf. During this process, I've come across photos of my husband and I's first house and have had fun reminiscing. It was a total fixer-upper when we bought it, but we were young, had no kids and were full of energy and optimism. We put so much of ourselves into that little house--making it something comfortable and homey. The funny thing is, that while I loved my cozy little house, I never felt it was worthy of my portfolio and so didn't take many photos of it. I did a horrible job of documenting the transformation from "yuck" to "sweet," and I'm kicking myself now.
Pre-renovation kitchen: old, but not-so-charming!
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Scary basement: this is what it looked like for the first year we lived there. |
When we bought it, we jumped right in fixing it up. We had the hardwood floors refinished, added new base and crown molding, a new front door, some new windows and painted the whole upstairs. Then, over time, we spruced up the kitchen, did a full remodel of the upstairs bath and re-landscaped the yard. Eventually we completely finished the basement, adding a new family room, a 3rd bedroom/office, a full bath and a laundry room. (The house didn't have a dryer when we bought it!) I produced all the permit drawings and acted as my own general contractor. It was the largest project we've personally undertaken and while it was exhausting, the finished product doubled our living space and allowed us to stay there as long as we did.
While all the renovations felt satisfactory, I never got around to really "decorating" the house and adding new furniture. Most of what we had were thrift store pieces, hand-me-downs or things left over from our single days. Consequently, I never felt like my house looked like a designer lived there. Silly me. We were busy being parents, working, and I always assumed there'd be a time for proper decor later. If there's a lesson I've learned in all of this, it's enjoy what you've got right now and don't live life so focused on what's around the corner.
What we "assumed" was around the corner, was a major house addition. We always thought that as family grew, we'd add up, creating a new second story. The house and location had potential for killer views of West Seattle, Elliott Bay, and the Olympic Mountains. Additionally, we loved our neighbors and the proximity to downtown Seattle.
Instead, just after the birth of our second son in 2010, we decided it was time to sell and get a bigger place. The whole thing was a whirlwind experience and I was mentally, emotionally and physically exhausted--taking care of an active 2-1/2 year old while tending to a new (fussy) baby, moving out, getting the house cleaned and ready for listing photos, trying to get settled in our new house, etc. I was so focused on the taking care of the kids, that I feel like I never got to officially say 'good-bye' to the house. I remember cleaning it on photo day (between baby feedings), doing a quick sweep of the house to make sure things were presentable, then rushing off to be home in time for lunch and naps. I didn't take any photos of my own and all I have now are photos ordered by the listing agent. They aren't the best, and they definitely look like real estate photos, but I'm thankful I at least have those. Looking back, I feel silly for not taking pride in my house as it was, wondering why it didn't seem good enough for my attention at the time.
My "new" house is a total fixer too, and when I see the photos of that old house, I think about how much I'd love to have those gorgeous hardwood floors NOW, the beautiful, old solid-wood doors, the plaster walls and the coved ceilings (I'm a sucker for old-house details), the fun crystal knobs on the doors, and the oasis-in-the-city backyard. Those were the good old days! Instead, I'm sitting here with shag carpeting that's seen better days, popcorn ceilings that are begging to be scraped, a kitchen that needs a full, gut-job overhaul, and a monsterous backyard that's more than I can handle. What were we thinking?!? :-)
Little by little, we're tackling home improvement jobs here, but things move slower with kids underfoot. In this blog I'll share with you the frustrations and the celebrations, but as I begin, I thought it fitting to start with a nod back to the "good old days!"
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